Yes, people everywhere are living exzmple of complicated lives. I think Taylor's actions to address past relationships have to be one of the MOST complex. In many ways she is an outspoken ambassador for femenism. I suppose what you are trying to iay is, yes, but...
Taylor Swift also has a persona of a person who goes out of her way to insill goodwill between one another. Peace, with a small p. Im not talking globally, (though she does that too) but one human to another.
Taylor is going to leave a bigger footprin than most when she calls out someoen for bad behavior. Now you might say, good! All the more reason to come down on it. Much of Taylor's overall message is a positive one about feminism and women can be strong and independent. I think she in general but perhaps in a more passave way speeks against misogany in the broadist sence.
Taylor is not you or I. Yes, she is a person by her own right, but she is simultaniously a brand. Brands are adverse to controvirsity. I think Taylor walks a tightrope very gingerly, knowing anything she says is going to be amplified way beyond what anyone says or does. Even national politicians.
We don't know what her relationships have really been like. We see what people will let us see. I'm pretty confident that upon exiting a relationship, her Ex's all know when their behavior has crossed a line. She is a strong enough woman, that she is going to be frank, in a personal way. Her way of not making personal relationships a national incident.
No one is perfect, but still I give Taylor pretty high marks in a lot of areas. This inclues managing her brand as well as her personal life. I'm not sure many of us would really want to be in her shoes.